10/31/2007

not so girlish anymore?

Yesterday I was telling someone the URL for my blog and all of a sudden I felt sheepish. Pilgrim_girl_? What am I thinking? I'll be 40 in a few years, for crying out loud! Is it time to let go of the girl and become something else? Something more mature and scholarly-sounding?

BTW, I think pilgrimwoman sounds dorky. Waaaaay too puritannical. I could just be pilgrim, but that's a bit vanilla-ish. Your ideas?

10 comments:

jana said...

gs:
I agree with you in so many ways! The rub for me is that I don't want to be one of those women who is forever denying their age or yearning to be/look younger.

I don't dye my hair, I haven't had any cosmetic surgery and I don't wear makeup ('cept on Halloween). Not that I diss those who do these things, but they are my way of saying "World, I am not afraid of my age." Perhaps the pilgrimgirl moniker is one way in which I continue to assert my youth(fulness)??

gs said...

==The rub for me is that I don't want to be one of those women who is forever denying their age or yearning to be/look younger.==

I don't think you're getting Satchels' drift: You cannot deny your age or yearn to be younger than you age when you don't know how old you are.

==Perhaps the pilgrimgirl moniker is one way in which I continue to assert my youth(fulness)??==

There you go again: You do not "assert" youthfullness (sounds so aggressive! :) Rather, the youthfullness which you already have expresses itself through the pilgrimgirl moniker.

Believe it or not, I am not an academic :) And you are a bubbling brook of youthfullness :)

jana said...

Thanks gs. :)

I think I think too much about what other people think!

molly said...

brainstorm:
'howdypilgrim'
'sojourner'
'peregrina'
'west or bust'
'into the west'
'wild westess'
'pilgrims progress'
'pilgrimess'
'pilgrima'
'pilgrimjana'
'lourdess pilgrim'
'pilgrims pride'
dont mind the silly

molly said...

madam pilgrim

molly said...

pilgrim warrior
xena pilgrim

daisies said...

i like pilgrim girl .. i'll be forty in just over a year and i still love my girly girl side and i suspect i will at 50 and 60 and 70 and even 80 :) we are women, we are humans, we are wise and wizened and sometimes we are girls ...

molly said...

yes, we should always embrace our childlike aspects. That is perfection.

jana said...

thanks for all of the encouragement and for the great ideas, mck!

the possibility of a blogname change is going to the backburner for awhile as other projects/deadlines are imminent. but this isn't the last you'll see of this topic...

gs said...

I like "sojourner"!